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Six Sense: Fearing I’ll be left out in the cold

9/25/2019

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​I’m not a fan of cold weather.

As a kid, I found it somewhat tolerable, primarily because of Christmas, or the chance of getting out of school for a snow day. But, even then, I disliked the cold wind in my face and cold wet feet.

Some particularly frigid college years in beautiful Lock Haven, Pennsylvania, only helped to cement those feelings.

As an adult, you could add driving in and having to shovel snow to my list of grievances. With the notable exception of hockey, there’s little that entices me about winter.

To address that, since my early 30s, I have been inching my way southward. As I’ve yet to get far enough to completely escape the weather, I cling to baseball season and golf, and when winter finally does rear its ugly head, I count the days to spring training to see me through.

To me, paradise is somewhere by the water, on a nice beach, and at worst requires a light jacket.

Thus, it was ironic, and not the least bit unexpected, that inevitably I have chosen to share my life with someone who feels almost the complete opposite. Call it Murphy’s Law? Opposites attract? It was simply bound to happen.

My partner in crime loves sweater weather and lives for Halloween. She embraces a six-week Christmas season complete with the prerequisite two-hour hunt for the perfect tree with all the sawing, dragging and tying that entails; and has been known to usher in pumpkin spice season in August.

And she is most definitely not a fan of the heat. Nor the humidity. Heck, where she grew up, it’s almost time for fall snow.

But I’ve had a glimmer of hope for some time. The high school senior has been on a kick to go to college in Florida. Knowing wherever she went, Mom would follow, I have silently hoped the gradual thawing of Mom’s anti-tropical bias would eventually find us basking in the warm Florida sun, laughing it up as my northern friends slogged through another winter.

And it was working! A couple of fall and winter trips to Florida were doing the trick. Helping her sister move in the middle of summer was not a dealbreaker. And I was a really good boy. I didn’t rub anything in, said no “I told you so’s,” nothing.

I could almost taste the beachside margarita.

That was, until the kid widened her potential landing spots to include my old stomping ground in Pennsylvania, or even (gasp) New England! 

Mom has done her best to try to get me to believe how temperate the climate will be along the water in New England, but I’m not buying it. I saw the amusement in her eye. And I know all about nor’easters, winds whipping off the ocean, two-foot snow dumps and everything coated in a layer of ice. I’ve seen pictures, I’ve heard the stories.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about a good education. I want the kid to choose the best school for her future, and where she will be happy. And to be perfectly clear, I will follow her and her mother anywhere. 

Think about it. One minute I’m imagining spending my winters in short sleeve shirts, playing golf a couple of times a week, cruising in the convertible, the next I’m dressed like the Gorton’s fisherman. That’s just a harsh reality to face. 

So, what I’m asking of you is a little sympathy. In return, should Florida win out in the end, I promise I won’t share any of those annoying Facebook memes Floridians post all winter.

Do we have a deal?

Chris Six is a freelance writer and consultant. Learn more at cdsix.com
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Never forget

9/11/2019

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As this column falls on the anniversary of 9/11, I want to take a moment to make a fervent plea we not let the events of that day, nor the repercussions we still feel today, slip from our consciousness.

It has been 18 years, and to put that into perspective, today’s high school seniors will have no memory of those events. Many were yet to be born. Even now, as the Trump Administration works to wind down the war in Afghanistan — America’s longest war — it should be noted those high school seniors have only known a nation at war.

It is far too easy to become desensitized to that fact as we struggle through our daily lives. Some 14,000 U.S. service members are currently in Afghanistan, with the Defense Department reporting an American soldier died during a combat operation as recently as Thursday, Aug. 29, the third in just over a week’s span. CBS News reports more than 2,400 U.S. service members have died in Afghanistan since the U.S.-led invasion in late 2001. Many more have come back bearing scars, both physical and mental.

And we have been reminded more than once this summer of the alarming level of cancer deaths among first responders and investigators exposed to toxins in the aftermath of the 9/11 attacks. 

Many were lost that day. Many were lost in the wars that followed. Many carry the wounds of the intervening years, and those who perpetrated that evil still reach out to take from us today.

We owe it to those who gave so much of themselves to care for their injuries and preserve their legacies. 

Never forget.
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Six Sense: First bump in the road for this cord cutter

9/11/2019

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Just before Christmas, we finally cut the cord on cable.

I say “finally,” because I have been streaming on my televisions for several years, largely the result of my interest in fringe sports and mid-major conferences. Like many, we have Netflix, Amazon Prime and other services, as well.

But, though I had been threatening for about a year to research what it would take to get all of the programming we wanted without cable, I hadn’t gotten around to actually doing the deed. Not surprising, I’m well known for my ability to prolong the pondering process.

The problem was ultimately solved in typical fashion by my Black Friday-savvy partner in crime, when she procured a “Smart TV” on a deal and gave me a deadline for dropping cable.

And we’ve loved it. We have access to more content than ever before, and the picture has far superior quality. Even my fears about our internet provider’s somewhat sketchy signal quality were ill-placed. I can count on one hand the times buffering got the better of us. We’ve become poster kids for cord-cutting.

Until we hit our first major snag this week. 

You see, in addition to her mad Black Friday shopping skills, she is also a weather junkie. When a big storm brews up in the Caribbean, or a blizzard warning pops up, she wants to see what Jim Cantore and the crew have on it.

Suffice to say, Hurricane Dorian fueled a need to watch The Weather Channel. Unfortunately, the number of services that carry it are limited, and, of course, not ones to which we subscribed. And my 24/7 weather streaming alternative just couldn’t cut the mustard.

Thankfully, the crisis was averted when I found an inexpensive add-on giving us access to Cantore and company. You can bet I didn’t take much time to ponder that decision. I may be saving a little less money, but always keep the home crowd happy.
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